To be honest, I don't know how receptive he actually is to that sort of thing. While I also want him to know that he doesn't always have to worry about being a means to someone else's enjoyment, I don't know that he allows anyone to convince him of that.
I don't know that he will be receptive to it at all, so we might as well prepare for it to not work out this time. It just means we'll have to keep pushing ever so slowly until he opts to hear it.
[ Dorothea holds back a sigh, not wanting to sound like a defeatist about it. ]
He may never accept it. But that doesn't mean we can't keep reminding him.
I didn't think about that. I... I don't want him to do that with us if he feels he can't refuse. Even though we wouldn't be twisting his arm about it, I don't want to be with someone who feels coerced, even if they don't see it that way. This place takes enough control from us as it is.
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[ Maybe he'll just have it on hand. Just in case. ]
Do you want me to shoot you a message after I talk to him?
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[ girl please stop raiding places in the resort for their wine, you have chips ]
I...just want him to know he's enjoyed. And that he doesn't always have to hold himself back. Not for the people who care about him.
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[ Cale hums, fingers tapping against the table. ]
To be honest, I don't know how receptive he actually is to that sort of thing. While I also want him to know that he doesn't always have to worry about being a means to someone else's enjoyment, I don't know that he allows anyone to convince him of that.
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[ Dorothea holds back a sigh, not wanting to sound like a defeatist about it. ]
He may never accept it. But that doesn't mean we can't keep reminding him.
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[ A sigh. ]
But you're not wrong. We can keep reminding him. For as long as it takes.
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I didn't think about that. I... I don't want him to do that with us if he feels he can't refuse. Even though we wouldn't be twisting his arm about it, I don't want to be with someone who feels coerced, even if they don't see it that way. This place takes enough control from us as it is.
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You might be better equipped to handle that than me.
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[ Pain in the ass (affectionate) ]
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[ But they can keep trying... ]